focus

I try so hard to understand others that I lost track of who I’m.

Meaning:

i try so hard to look from different point of view, that sometimes it’s difficult for me to focus on my own view and i become indecisive.

And it’s getting worst.

i remember a scene from the film 'the last samurai' -

the japanese guy:

"too many mind, mind people walk, mind the enemy. No mind"

''No mind", replied Tom Cruise

means one should close his mind from outside influence, focus on his objective, and just be oneself.

That’s what one should do. This way can also solve the problem of low self confidence.

from the film "the Last Samurai"